{"id":21,"date":"2026-10-15T10:52:49","date_gmt":"2026-10-15T10:52:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarla-iletisim\/"},"modified":"2026-10-15T10:52:49","modified_gmt":"2026-10-15T10:52:49","slug":"bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarla-iletisim","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarla-iletisim\/","title":{"rendered":"Bo\u015fanma S\u00fcrecinde \u00c7ocuklarla \u0130leti\u015fim"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"ce-fig\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/wp-content\/themes\/cocuk-ergen-aile\/assets\/img\/bosanma-surecinde-cocuklarla-iletisim.jpg\" alt=\"Bo\u015fanma S\u00fcrecinde \u00c7ocuklarla \u0130leti\u015fim\" width=\"1200\" height=\"750\"><\/figure>\n<p>Bo\u015fanma, yaln\u0131zca e\u015fler i\u00e7in de\u011fil, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de b\u00fcy\u00fck bir de\u011fi\u015fimdir. Ancak ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, bo\u015fanman\u0131n kendisinden \u00e7ok, s\u00fcre\u00e7 boyunca ya\u015fanan \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ve ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocu\u011fa nas\u0131l yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun uyumunu belirledi\u011fini g\u00f6stermektedir. Do\u011fru ileti\u015fimle \u00e7ocuklar bu s\u00fcreci daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 atlatabilir.<\/p>\n<h2>Karar\u0131 nas\u0131l anlatmal\u0131?<\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fcmk\u00fcnse iki ebeveynin birlikte, sakin bir ortamda ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun bir dille konu\u015fmas\u0131 \u00f6nerilir. Ayr\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 gerek\u00e7eler ve su\u00e7lamalar yerine, karar\u0131n yeti\u015fkinlerin karar\u0131 oldu\u011fu, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu durumda hi\u00e7bir su\u00e7u olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve iki ebeveynin de onu sevmeye devam edece\u011fi a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a s\u00f6ylenmelidir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131nda nelerin de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fi, nelerin ayn\u0131 kalaca\u011f\u0131 somut olarak anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>Ya\u015fa g\u00f6re tepkiler<\/h2>\n<p>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklarda gerileme, uyku sorunlar\u0131 ve ayr\u0131l\u0131k kayg\u0131s\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Okul \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar su\u00e7luluk, ebeveynlerin bar\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131 umudu ve sadakat \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ya\u015fayabilir. Ergenlerde ise \u00f6fke, i\u00e7e kapanma ya da sorumluluk y\u00fck\u00fc hissetme g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. Bu tepkilerin \u00f6nemli bir k\u0131sm\u0131 zamanla azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2>\u00c7ocu\u011fu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda tutmak<\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131nda di\u011fer ebeveyni k\u00f6t\u00fclemek, \u00e7ocu\u011fu mesaj ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131 olarak kullanmak, ondan taraf tutmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek ya da di\u011fer ebeveyn hakk\u0131nda bilgi toplamak \u00e7ocu\u011fa en \u00e7ok zarar veren davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk, iki ebeveynini de sevmekte \u00f6zg\u00fcr hissetmelidir.<\/p>\n<h2>Yeni d\u00fczen<\/h2>\n<p>D\u00fczenli ve \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fclebilir bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme program\u0131, iki evde benzer kurallar ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca korunmas\u0131 g\u00fcven duygusunu destekler. Ebeveynler aras\u0131ndaki ileti\u015fimin \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 etraf\u0131nda s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclmesi \u00f6nemlidir; bu konuda <a href=\"http:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/ebeveyn-danismanligi\/\">ebeveyn dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/a> faydal\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<h2>Ne zaman destek al\u0131nmal\u0131?<\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun tepkileri aylar ge\u00e7mesine ra\u011fmen azalm\u0131yorsa, okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 ve arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri belirgin \u015fekilde etkilendiyse ya da yo\u011fun \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, \u00f6fke ve kayg\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyorsa uzman deste\u011fi al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in <a href=\"http:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/ankara-oyun-terapisi\/\">oyun terapisi<\/a>, ergenler i\u00e7in <a href=\"http:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/ankara-ergen-psikologu-ilk-gorusme\/\">ergen psikolo\u011fu ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme<\/a> uygun se\u00e7enekler olabilir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bo\u015fanma s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fim: karar\u0131n nas\u0131l anlat\u0131laca\u011f\u0131, ya\u015fa g\u00f6re tepkiler, \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda tutmak, yeni d\u00fczen ve ne zaman destek al\u0131nmal\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":13,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-21","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/21","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/21\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":52,"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/21\/revisions\/52"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pegder.org.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}